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Intending to Love My Body

July 15th, 2010

We just passed a New Moon on Sunday (7-11-2010), and I’ve been thinking about a new focus for this month.  I’ve decided that feeling better in my body will be my goal (through 8-9-2010).

Who doesn’t want to feel good in their body?  Especially this time of year when the weather is hot and we’re covering less of ourselves for the sake of temperature control.

I want to feel better IN my body and ABOUT my body.  I want to focus on the things I love about it.  I’ve actually already started this and have been doing a little work in this area for about two weeks, but it’s been very inconsistent.  Starting today, I want to begin a few new regular habits.

My official intention is: I want to realize the beauty and perfection that is my body so I may love and respect it in kind*

The habits I intend to practice daily for this month are~

  • Get up at the same time every day
  • Walk
  • Look good 2 feel good
  • Take my supplements
  • Eat well & with intention/purpose
  • Drink 8 glasses of water
  • No more than 2 cups of coffee
  • Be aware of my posture and the general state of my body

How I intend to implement these new habits into my daily life.

We must remember that intentions are very powerful things, but if we’re not living in alignment with our intentions, they can fall short fast.  You cannot change if you don’t change.  Duh, right?  But really.  You can intend to create change, but if you don’t initiate the change, it cannot happen.  In other words, you can’t continue doing what you always do and then wonder why change doesn’t come.

This is where I, like many others, fall short with my intentions sometimes.  I know what I want, I just don’t follow through and do anything to initiate the change, or I do, but I don’t sustain the momentum, usually because habits fall off a little at a time.

There must be a plan.  That’s what you would do with anything else in life you wanted to move toward.  You would make a plan of action.  That is exactly what I am going to do to ensure my own success.

First, getting up at the same time every day.

I’ve been having some sleeping issues lately and I know it’s directly related to my body and how I feel in and about it, so a regular waking time in the morning is going to be essential in my success.

This is also why I am cutting my caffeine intake down to two cups of coffee per day.  And no caffeine after 3pm.

I’m going to walk.

I feel so much better when I get regular exercise.  I have a hard time just walking though.  Somewhere in my head there’s a voice saying that if I walk, I might as well run or that the walking isn’t making any difference when I know darn well that it is.  It can be easy to talk ourselves out of exercise, but walking is easy, doesn’t take a lot of time, and I’m operating on a “No Excuses” train of thought this month.  I’m going to sit down and get down a couple affirmations that I can apply during my walk too.

Look good 2 feel good!

After a morning walk, it’s natural to go freshen up, especially in the summer when sweat isn’t only associated with physical exertion.  This is where “Look good 2 feel good” comes in.  When I put a little effort into my appearance, it completely changes my entire outlook.  However, often if I’m not leaving the house, I’ll stay in sweat pants all day.  I don’t want to add to an image of laziness in my own head.  Just making the extra effort to look nice makes me feel better, regardless of what I do that day.  Besides, it’s nice to be able to walk out the door at the drop of a hat without having to wear one.

I am placing my supplements in the area where I sit to brush my hair and don my necklace and earrings, so it will become part of this daily process.

To ensure I’m drinking all 8 glasses of water, I’ll pre measure and refrigerate it before bed so it’s cold and good to go in the morning.  I’m also keeping a cut up lemon in a container in the fridge so it can be readily added to my water.  I LOVE lemon water!

I want to make a more regular practice of becoming aware of my posture and the state of my body.

My upper back goes out a lot and I get a lot of tension and stress in my neck that brings on headaches.  I want to not only become aware of my posture, but I want to sit straighter on purpose and recite a healing affirmation with it.  I’m thinking something like “Relaxed, aligned, and feeling fine!”

I’m need a cue to become aware, and I was thinking maybe a bracelet or some such thing that I can use to remind me when I look at it or touch it or something like that.  I’m open to suggestions :)

Eat well with intention/purpose.

Last but most certainly not least.  I am keeping more fresh fruits and veggies in my house.  I am cooking good quality and good tasting food for my family.  This is incredibly important.  I do this on a regular basis already, except for the extra snack foods in my life.  For this month I’m eliminating them.  Well, not eliminating snacks, but DEFINITELY making some different choices, like walnuts with a little dark chocolate instead of the Snickers bar.  Snickers really satisfies my ass… literally.

One down side of cooking and eating really great food is having it taste SO good, in fact, that you eat roughly three times what you should.  I am guilty of this often.  I love food.  I know it’s not AS bad that what I’m overeating is garlic olive oil sauteed asparagus, but that’s still a lot of extra fat and calories.  Not to mislead you into thinking I’m some oddball who only overeats vegetables.  If it tastes REALLY good, I will eat too much.

I’m going to start by making sure that at least 3/4 of my plate is filled with food that originated from the ground.  Then, when I eat, that 3/4 is going to be what I eat first and foremost, because I may be full and eat less meat by the time I get to it.

The intention and purpose is my favorite part.  I try to do this, but forget and chat at the table and lose all track of what I’ve been shoveling into my face.  I will take care to be more present when I eat.  And no more second helpings.  I mindlessly eat when I go for seconds.  I will be sure to taste and enjoy my food, and pay close attention to signals I may be receiving from my stomach.

So that about wraps it up.  I’m going to keep a journal through this.  Just deciding to do this and going into it with a plan of action has me feeling better about myself already :)

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My affirmation until Sunday, 7-25-10 on the Full Moon~
As I focus upon being happy, all other joy filled things in my life expand*

~ OxOxx

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In Moments of Stillness

July 7th, 2010

Yesterday it was 95 degrees outside.  SO uncomfortable.

I watered my garden and flowers in my bathing suit, basking in the wonderfully delightful rays of the sun.  I spent much of the day in the comfortable 76 degrees of the house.  I found my way into the pool a few different times.  Just jumping in and swimming around a few minutes, then getting back out does wonders for your over-heated body.

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I’ve got this little voice in my head that says I’m lazy for not “doing something” and it causes me to have a hard time doing nothing, or rather doing something that my ego mind views as non-productive.  I’ve been working on this for a couple months now and I’ve been noticing a difference.  I sit and do nothing and enjoy it.  I think about how perfect the moment in within itself and AS itself with nothing lacking or wrong.

So for the past three months, I’ve been purposely doing nothing of consequence and observing the world around me while allowing the realization that, as a human being, this is all I’m really here to do.  This IS my purpose.  To just be myself, where I am, in stillness and peace.  To be calm and allow  the knowledge that as I sit and observe the amazing things around me, I am allowing God to cloak my whole life in peace and love.

My ego brain urges me to do something useful because I’m wasting precious time, but my higher mind assures me that this is actually the most productive thing I can possibly be doing.  I have learned to follow the suggestions of my higher mind because it’s become glaringly clear how very true all the things it’s ever told me were….

So I have sat and observed.  Observed and adored.  Adored and imagined.  Imagined and allowed.  Allowed and become…

Become what?  Happier?  More satisfied?  More relaxed?  More enamored with life?

Yes.

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One big thing that’s manifested into my life recently is our 27′ round, 52″ deep swimming pool (that I KEEP talking about!).  It’s a really big deal for me.  It’s something I’ve literally wanted my entire life.  I’ve always thought of people who owned swimming pools (even though I didn’t realize it years ago) as being abundant and wealthy, so being in a place where I own this very awesome swimming pool, in itself, makes my entire abundance vibe change.  I actually FEEEEEL wealthier.

I’ve been taking advantage of the feeling I derive from owning this pool by just basking in it.  The pool AND the feeling.  Separately AND at the same time.  I look around my home as I sit in quiet observation and I find it striking how blessed I feel.  I feel as though I really have it all.  Then I go outside and float around the swimming pool in a floating chair with a drink in the cup holder and a large brimmed sun hat on my head and I feel like the pampered trophy wife to a millionaire. LOL  So I expound on the feelings.  The imaginings.  The luxurious fantasy.

That feeling place is the most important place to find when you’re trying to consciously manifest.  I’ve seen it time and again in my own life.  I am convinced and have been for quite some time.

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On Saturday, June 26th for the full moon, I did a small ritual.  I just lit a candle and said a prayer of gratitude and love.  Then I made a list of things I’d love to see manifest themselves into my life.  The deep.  The trivial.  Everything that came to mind.  They are long and short term goals, for instance “New Carpet Throughout the House” is on my list, but we agree that we don’t want new carpet until all interior remodeling is complete, so it’s surely not an urgent request.  Just on my list of wants.

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So yesterday was super hot.  We’re having quite a heatwave here in NE Ohio.  I’m learning to be an observer of the creation surrounding me at any given moment and I’m finding an amazing amount of pleasure in it.  Pleasure that I believe is helping my goals manifest quicker!

I spent yesterday doing very little.  The heat talked me into it, so I was just going with the flow.

I lounged and swam and read and went to the library and ate Peanut Butter, Banana, Coconut Sandwiches with a side of strawberries and walnuts drizzled in chocolate for lunch with my kids.  I talked to my plants and played computer games and took my dog in the swimming pool with me.  By the time Mike got home @ 5, I was looking forward to another relaxed evening of family time in the pool and maybe something on the grill for dinner.  A perfect end to a perfect day.

Mike comes through the door.  I inquire as to his day and he, mine.  We’re chatting and catching up from our 8 hour separation and he tells me, “I got a tip today.”

“Oh yeah?  That’s great!” I say.

He hands me a couple folded bills.  I unfold them.  I’m holding 1 one hundred dollar bill, 2 twenties, and a ten.

“Holy shit, Babe!  That’sa big tip!”  He just stands there grinning.

He celebrated by taking his pampered, trophy wife to her favorite Mexican restaurant for dinner!  Then we went over to Lowes to look at ceiling fans.  That’s one thing on my list of wants and it’s been SO hot here recently, we need to get it now.  We wanted to buy a 52″ ceiling fan for our bedroom so we could take down the 48″ ceiling fan and relocate it into Michael’s bedroom.

We found a 52″ fan that was originally $160, but was a return and has been discontinued.  Marked down to $99.  I was like… “WOOHOO! $60 off!!”  but not Mike.  He walks over to the sales clerk and says, “Previously opened, taped back together, discontinued…. I think you can do better than $99.”

The clerk calls his manager on the phone.  Talks for about 30 seconds.  Hangs up, turns around and says, “Okay, $50.”

I almost fell over.

So we go up to the register and while we’re up there, Mike wants to look in the clearance rack for windows.  He checks there every time we’re there, but there’s mostly doors and special order returns that are small or oddly shaped.  We’re trying to make a sun room.  We want big, double hung windows.

There in the rack are 2 huge, double hung, matching windows.  O  M  G ! ! !   I high tail it over and they’re $300 each, both marked down to $150!!!  I’m like, “WOW! That’s like, buy one get one free!! I LOVE buy one get one free!!”

“I think they can do better,” he says…. And they call the manager to the front.

For this, I am mortified.  Mike is a haggler.  I am not.  I see a deal and am happy to have spotted it.  I am willing to spend money when I feel that what I’m buying is worth the price.  Before I met Mike, I was unaware that haggling was even an option at places like Wal-mart or Lowes or even SEARS… but he has shown me that if you tell them you want to pay less, they will actually charge you less.  It’s quite amazing really, but I feel ridiculous and have to walk away while he works his magic. LOL

I didn’t walk away this time.  I was ready to leave.  We were standing right by the door.  I was ready to grab those windows and head for home.  The manager types into his computer, looks up at Mike and says, “I can give em to ya for a hundred a piece.”

In my head, I’m doing the most ridiculous happy dance.  We just saved $50 off each window.

Mike just stands there.  He looks over at the windows.  Looks back at me.  Looks back at the windows.  Then he just STANDS there.  Silent.  For like… 15 seconds, which is an ETERNITY in such a situation.  As I’m about to wave my hand in front of his face to see if he’s still awake, the manager types a little more and says, “Okay, $75 a piece. $150 for both.”

O  M  G ! ! !  We got them buy one get one free at the DISCOUNTED price.  So we left Lowes with roughly $760 in goods for the rock bottom price of $214 with tax :)

I actually did the happy dance at that point.  And I didn’t give a hoot what anyone thought of it!

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So we came home and the kids went out to the pool for the evening swim and Mike started taking down our old fan to put up the new one.  I helped him get the old one down and was laying on the bed with the dog, watching him wire the new one up.

I used the time to be present with him.  To be in the newly remodeled Master’s Suite that I ADORE with the man I ADORE, watching him install the fan that all my adoration has bought me.

I will continue to take time to see Eden as it is and not as my ego would have it be.  I will be myself, where I am.  I am manifesting life in moments of stillness.

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My affirmation until 7-11-10 on the New Moon~
My life is a reflection of my thoughts. I will think on Joy filled things*

~ OxOxx

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An Afternoon Musing…

July 5th, 2010

The famous saying is, “Life’s a journey, not a destination.”
I read this online a bit ago and as I sat here pondering the well worn phrase, I realized that I could NOT disagree more!!

I believe that life is a destination.  You’re already here.  You’re always, already at your destination.

Life is not a journey, for journey implies future completion.

Your journey is complete in one perfect moment, Now.

To journey implies motion when it is really in stillness that Life is found.

A journey is a traveling from A to B while Life is standing motionless in the Light of Creation, holding no judgment and observing the perfection that is the true world in which we reside.

Journey is illusory… It is ego… It is to be collected and kept upon a shelf of trophies to satiate the need to complete…

Life is the knowledge of completion.

True Life is Now.

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My affirmation until 7-11-10 on the New Moon~
My life is a reflection of my thoughts. I will think on Joy filled things*

~ OxOxx

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