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How I’m Becoming a Morning Person

December 18th, 2010

A quick reminder that the Full Moon is on Tuesday, 12-21-2010.  This is a very special day as it is also the Winter Solstice (the shortest day of the year and first day of winter) and there is a full lunar eclipse!  What a BIG day!!

Join us for a Full Moon Group Abundance Meditation @ 11 am and 11 pm EST~  It promises to wield tremendous power in the coming year!!


One of the things on my list for the new year is to expand and write about my morning routine.

I want to start by talking about the importance of how you start your day.

When someone is really cranky, it is often said that they got up on the wrong side of the bed.  This is because we’ve always known that your day starts before your feet even touch the floor.  The thoughts that flood your mind upon waking are the thoughts that are going to shape your entire day.

How I used to start my day~

*Smack* down onto the alarm clock.  Sit up.  If I don’t, I’ll go back to sleep.

Fumble around for my clothes.  Brrrrr is it cold.  Wrap in thick cotton ANYTHING I can find, and zombie walk to the kitchen.

Put the tea kettle on the stove and add coffee grounds to my french press.  Zombie walk over to let the dogs out.

Zombie walk back to the kitchen, silently grumbling in my head about how stiff I feel and how cold it is and how dark it is and how damn early it is.

Pour the water, then the fresh coffee.  Zombie walk to my chair and open my laptop.

Squint.  Sip.  Sigh.

How I want to start my morning~

Reach up and click my alarm off before it even sounds because my internal clock is spot on.

Deep stretch and a moment of complete appreciation for my body, my bed, my husband, a new day.

Rise, dress and head to the kitchen for a glass of cool, fresh water.

Roll out my yoga mat and actually DO some yoga.

Sit on my yoga mat and meditate/morning prayer for a few minutes when I’m finished with my yoga.

Brew up some righteously wonderful coffee…

Post my quote and Spiritual ponderings for the day on Lilypad Paradise.

You have the most say in how your day is going to go when you first open your eyes in the morning.

About three months ago, I started taking a more active role in my waking moments.  As soon as I realize I’m awake every morning, the first thing I do is stretch my body out in a huuuuge stretch, and then I contract my body back into a little ball.

Then I feel my bed.

Not with my hands, but with my entire being.  I notice the warm, softness of my sheets against my skin, and the weight of the heavy, cotton comforter that covers me.

I notice the hairy leg next to me and smile in acknowledgment.

I notice the smell of my sheets.

I notice everything I can become aware of.

This whole routine takes me less than two minutes.  It’s quick and easy and it puts a huge smile on my face before my feet even hit the floor.  I love it.

There was less zombie walk and grumbles.  When I got up, I had an appreciative thought on my mind so there was less room for complaints.

After about a month and a half of actively directing my thoughts upon waking, I decided to add onto this routine so I was also directing my thoughts after my feet were floor bound.  I was having such great success with just directing my thoughts for two minutes before rising, I knew that it could get even better.

Then on November 9th, I began choosing a quote to start my morning with on Lilypad Paradise.  It’s been a month and a half that I’ve been at that now and I am really loving it a lot.  When I get up in the morning, I actually look forward to the moment that I’ll be able to sit down and start my daily post.

Now, there’s almost NO zombie walk or grumbles.  By the time I’ve spent a few minutes in bed, basking in the beauty that is my life, and then headed toward my laptop where I get to ponder my favorite subject, I’m high on life, and ready for the day to unfold for me.

I’ve always wanted to be one of those people who wakes up in the morning happy.

You know, one of those God awful morning people.  One of those people who don’t need an IV drip of coffee strong enough to stand a spoon in to feel human in the morning.

I’ve realized recently that the main things that stands between me and them is that I believe it’s a pain in the ass to be like them, and I believe that a zombie walk to the coffee is the only way I can function in the morning.

I know these things are true for me only because I believe them to be.  It just never really occurred to me that I believed that, really.  It’s something that I’ve done for SO long.  A behavior that I have participated in for SO long… I just accepted it as the way it is.  It never occurred to me that I had actual beliefs around it or that it could be different.  That *I* could be different.

I suppose it’s because the zombie walk has always worked for me, so I never questioned it.  I had no need or desire to be any different.

Now, I have a desire.

I’ve nearly become a morning person just from the two small, regular practices I’ve been doing for the past three months, now I want to work on some morning meditation and some morning yoga…. PRE coffee.

Such a daunting idea for me.  I know I want it though.  It puts a smile on my face to imagine being up in the dark of the pre-dawn hours with my yoga mat, stretching my body out and warming and waking it up more naturally than just a quick jolt of caffeine.

I want to replace that first thing, cup of coffee with a nice cool glass of water.  Our bodies go into detox in the night as we slumber, and one great way to flush all the toxin buildup away is to drink a glass of pure water first thing in the morning.  This also gets your organs fired up for the day and gets your bowels moving (not the most pleasant topic, but certainly one that’s appreciated in the morning).

After putting a glass of water in my system to get things fired up, I want to spend some time stretching out and doing some yoga.  Not a heavy, sweaty routine of poses.  Just something fairly short and simple to get my muscles warmed up and get my blood flowing freely.

I was looking around youtube for something I can start with and found this routine.  It’s a very simple and basic routine and at only seven minutes in length, it’s perfect for a quick warm up in the morning.  This will be my jumping off point.

Who knows, a few months from now, I might be doing a full, forty-five minute yoga routine, happily.  But for now, I will start small and go with a glass of water and a seven minute stretch.

And as a final expansion of my routine, I want to have a seat on my yoga mat when I’ve finished my morning stretches and meditate.  I’ll start with five minutes.  I try to remember to say a morning prayer, but I often forget.  I want to add it right into my routine.

The solstice is only two days away now, so I’m trying to get all my changes organized so I’m ready to strike.  I’m a big believer in planning less and getting to it, more… but some things just need a little scheduling and planning, and this is one of them.  I need a few days of knowing what’s coming and mentally preparing for such a big shift.

I am really looking forward to it though.  Maybe a dry run on Monday morning….

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The Manifestation Process

October 24th, 2010

I want to thank everybody who participated in the full moon group meditation even though I didn’t send out another reminder, and I want to apologize for falling off the grid and leaving you all hanging.

I’ve been laid up in bed for the past three days with the most awful headache and I just couldn’t bring myself to be sitting up and on my laptop.  I was however available and did participate at the predetermined time because I KNEW that there were going to be some of you there.

It ended up being a blessing because I found that my head didn’t hurt so much while I was meditating and I spent much of the following day in meditation because it was the best pain relief I could find.

I’ve already received some emails about the newly showing success and I want to take this opportunity to remind you all of what to expect.  It’s a four part process that when remembered and worked from will create amazing things in your life.

The “Full Moon Group Meditation” is officially a monthly meeting.  I hope you’ll all join us for the next group meditation on Sunday November 21, 2010!

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Step 1~ The Intention

This is best done by sitting down with pen and paper and really deciding what you want to see.  It’s best to only focus upon one area of your life at a time, but you can actually combine several mini intentions into one overall goal.  For instance, by deciding to focus upon increasing ease and joy in your relationships in general, you can focus upon virtually ALL people with whom you relate.  That’s many mini intentions all wrapped up into one single focus.

Step 2~ The Alpha Reflection

When you send out your desires into the Universe, you will generally see an almost immediate show of recognition.  For instance, if you were intending an increase in money, you might find $5 the very next day.

This is what I like to refer to as, the alpha reflection.  It’s simply the Universe reflecting back to you that which sums up your intention to let you know that your manifestation muscle has been flexed and is now creating expansion for you.

Step 3~ The Omega Reflection

This is what happens due to you previously recognizing what you do not want in your life by observing it.  It’s the sum total of what you have previously believed to be true before you decided to intend to change things.

**It’s important to note that we never actually change THINGS.  It is us who changes and then the reflection of life shifts to reveal that change that happened within. **

So, after you set your intention and the Universe reflects the Alpha, it reflects the other end of the scale, which I like to call the Omega.

The Omega is God giving you a chance to change your mind and keep your previously held beliefs in play.  It’s the equivalent of a patient parent saying, “Now honey, are you SURE you don’t like this outfit anymore?  It has fit you well up until now and if I throw it out, then it’s gone.  Are you sure you want me to pitch it and get you that other one you think you want??”

And here’s the trick.  When God asks you if you’re sure it’s the new way that you want by showing you ONE MORE TIME what the old way looked like, it’s your job to say yes by not reacting to the old way in the old way.  You now must say yes by reacting in the NEW way, because if the new way is how it is, then the old reaction doesn’t exist.

If you react in the same old way, you are canceling out your intention because you’re telling God that the old way is fine and you’re proving it by acting it out again.

Step 4~ The Manifestation

This one is pretty self explanatory.  It is the step in which the new beliefs begin to manifest for you for real.  It is when the changing of your world becomes obvious and you see it differently and in turn you feel differently about it.

Now the best thing you can do is take a moment every single time you recognize a new piece of your manifestation taking shape and say a prayer of gratitude for it.

Oxoxx~

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October New Moon Intentions

October 13th, 2010

Okay, so I sort of missed the boat on this one.  I was on my way to a manifestation and wasn’t quite to the new intention place yet, but I am now, so here it comes.

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My official intention is: I want to lose 14 pounds in 4 weeks.

The habits I intend to practice this month are~

  • Work out at Curves every morning Monday through Friday.
  • Continue meditating daily.

I intend to meditate when I get home from working out.  My body is all relaxed and my mind is clear.  It’s a great time of day for me.

I started on 10-11-10 (I’m loving that) so I’m going to overshoot the new moon by a couple days, but hey, timing isn’t everything.  If I went to exactly four weeks, I would land on November 8th, but my official weigh in day every month through the gym is the 11th so I’m going to go with that.

Octobers Lunar Joy Quest~

I know it’s already in motion, but I’m counting it because it is a big deal.  I joined Curves again this month.  I really love working out there and had great success(40 pounds in 7 months) as a member once before.  It seems silly to me that I can’t just get off my ass and go for a walk every day, but that’s just the way it is.  I will not waste my time trying to make myself conform to an ideal that clearly just does NOT work for me.  I need the motivation that going to Curves brings, and I now accept that and am declaring it my October Lunar Joy Quest.

Heck, I’m already happier from going and it’s only been three days!

My Affirmations for this cycle~

My body is self healing and exists in perfect balance.
Losing unneeded weight is super easy for me when I exercise and feel good.
Everything just keeps getting better and better!  I love this life.

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* * * Mark your calendar! *  *  *

The full moon comes on Friday, October 22, 2010 @ 9:37 pm EDT, and I’ll be hosting another Group Abundance Meditation.  I’m thinking it will be at 11:00pm EDT.  Our last gathering boasted quite a group and the vibes were great.

We’ve certainly experienced some increase in our family and I sure hope you have too.  My hubby ended up practically stealing a new tilt-bed.  It won’t be long now before he’s a proud business owner :)  He’s wanted this business for so long.  He’s almost there, and it’s so exciting.

I hope you’ll join us for the Full Moon in Taurus!  Things started in Taurus are stubborn.  They stick and are hard to undo.

* * *  If you’d like to officially sign up to participate, you can just reply to this post if you subscribe through email and just give your first name and location. Anything you want to add is optional.  Otherwise you can click here and just fill out the contact form.

* * *  If you DON’T want to officially sign up, THAT’S OKAY!!  You don’t have to.  Anyone and Everyone should feel free to reach out at the appropriate time.  I am all about being all inclusive.  Some people just like to be known, and that’s all good too.

Either way, I hope to feel you there!!

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